Update from Colin

To say the last few years have been an emotional roller coaster would be the understatement of the century. The ups and downs, the back and forth... It has all been a process, and Heather has taken it in stride. About a week ago, we were told Heather has PTLD (transplant-related cancer) in her brain. We were transferred 3 miles across town to UPMC Shadyside. There, we were given her options for treatment. Everyone knows Heather is a complicated case, one that takes some of the best medical minds in the world to decipher. Together we discussed 3 different types of chemotherapy, and/or radiation. All have benefits and drawbacks. Chemo is tough on the heart and kidneys and leaves the body ripe for infection. The body can only take so much, and hers has been through the ringer. Radiation is a relatively painless process and much more targeted to a specific area, vs. chemo that travels throughout the blood stream. The decision was made to go forth with radiation. Radiation has its downsides.  It can leave you tired, run down, and there are concerns about long-term cognitive issues. Honestly, when it came down to it, it wasn't much of a decision.  Dr. Lieberman said Heather's body is not strong enough for chemotherapy.  In his words, "It might kill her."  The treatment plan is this: 10 treatments over two weeks, Monday through Friday, with the weekends off. As I write this we have 2 treatments in the books. I look into her eyes and see the woman I married behind them, knowing full well she can hear and she knows what I'm saying. It's just a battle for her to reply. I've said it before and will continue to say how much this girl impresses me. She is strong, caring, with spirit that won't quit and a heart of gold. Through all of this, she will prevail. Failure is not an option and neither of us know the meaning of the word quit. 

Thank you to everyone for all the support and prayers all of you are amazing.